Working with Me

OTHER WORK: SPEAKER | RESEARCH CONSULTANT | SPEAKER KIT

When I am not engaged in public speaking, writing, consulting, or pastoring my digital faith community, I work with people as a Spiritual Doula. If you’ve seen my testimonials or heard me speak on social media, you know my passion for ethical, transformative work to help my clients get grounded in clarity and walking in their embodied power. To learn more about my current service offers, tap or click here.

Become a Patreon

Price: $10/Month | Annual Plans Available

By becoming an Unfit Christian Patreon, you get a taste of what private work with me is like. Here is where I share exclusive content — including my unpolished inner thoughts, my own spiritual challenges and growth, New/Full Moon divinations, and leminars (lecture + seminar) on matters of deconstruction and spiritual growth. Membership starts at $10/month with no long term commitments required. It is is an excellent way to support Unfit Christian financially without a huge investment.

Spiritual Doula? Why Not Coach?

I promise I’m not just being contrary, I call myself a Spiritual Doula with great intention and reverence. It is, to me, a better reflection of what I do as a partner in your journey as opposed to Spiritual Coaching. Both coaches and doulas:

  • Provide resources, information, and accountability.
  • Address personal circumstances and concerns of the client.
  • Facilitate clarity about the client’s goals and wishes and make a plan to achieve them.

However, as a Spiritual Doula, my service practices and praxis includes:

  • You lead, I guide: As a spiritual doula, I nurture and support my clients throughout the labor of deconstruction, providing continuous support no matter what decisions they make or how they define their path.
  • You are the final decision maker: My role and agenda are tied solely to YOUR agenda. While a coach offers a structured program or course that they deem to be best, every plan we build is a collective action where you decide what’s the best fit.
  • Understanding the why: In addition to facilitating clarity on your goals, I also help you question the motivation behind them, distinguish fears from reality, and truth from myth.
  • I get in the mess with you: Our client-doula relationship will be one of the most intimate relationships you engage with personal development as the center. And for good reason! Unlike a business or career coach, I am not simply offering methodology and frameworks as a means to an end. I labor besides you in the darkest, hardest, and messiest seasons to bring forth beauty for ashes and create something sacred on the other side of healing.

We all need people we can trust to be all up in our business and see everything for what it really is. For my clients, I am the spur of Hebrews 10:24, the exhortation of Hebrews 3:13, the joy and mourning of Romans 12:15, the builder of 1 Thessalonians 5:11, and the restoration of Galatians 6:1. As your Spiritual Doula, it is my goal to be a safe space you to not feel obligated to have it all together. I am the veil to hide your mess as you labor to manifest your big, beautiful intentions and goals. I help you make room for the miracle through self-compassion, vulnerability, and understanding what truly makes everything well within your soul.

Testimonials

WHAT OTHERS HAVE SAID
  • I came to Danyelle finally at my wit’s end. I shared with her my experiences with Christianity and how now, on the outside, it never felt like home. Through a phone call, she saw me. She listened as I went deeper into my pain and she gave me space to acknowledge where I was wasn’t wrong and that it was okay to leave this religion behind. Danyelle is a comforter. She’s an active listener with active suggestions on how to carry on when the journey gets too tough. I highly recommend anyone going through a crisis of theology/faith to support her and partake in her services.

    J.D.